Showing posts with label Homestay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Homestay. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Interview With A Former "Foreigner": Valuable Advice For International Students


Coming to a new country can be an exciting, challenging, and sometimes scary experience. Learning a new language can be all of those things too. I interviewed Gustavo Machado, a former newcomer to the U.S. from Venezuela, about his experiences as a new international student. I asked him how he overcame language barriers and became fluent in English, what helped him get acclimated to his new country the most, his homestay experiences with American families and what advice he would give international students today. Gus has now lived in the country for 23 years, has become an official U.S. citizen, works as a Public Relations Specialist for a large U.S. healthcare company and is an expert on all things about his second-home-town, Atlanta, GA!

MH: What is a moment or feeling that sticks out in your mind that you experienced when you first same to the U.S.?
Gus: When I came to study in 1991, it was about the third or fourth time that I had come to the US. The first time was in 1978, when my Dad took the family to Disney World. From that trip, one of the moments that sticks in my memory is flying over Miami, not long before landing at the airport; it seemed like every house below had a pool in its backyard! Wow!
A moment that sticks from my 1991 trip was sitting on the runway at JFK airport, on our way to Buffalo on a small commuter plane, waiting for our turn to take off. “Folks, this is going to take a while… we’re number 31 for takeoff,” said the captain.
Once we landed in Buffalo, I could not believe that it was 65 degrees (F) in the middle of summer! Unfortunately, that euphoria didn't last long, as I moved to Waco, Texas a month later, and I faced 98 degrees at midnight! Still, fall was just around the corner. They have four seasons in this country!
MH: What were the biggest challenges in learning English, and what tips can you give to learners of English as a second language?
Gus: The biggest challenge was to convert all that I had read and memorized into speech. I didn't feel secure enough at first when talking to others in English, so I usually apologized in advance for my poor language skills. People were always nice about it, though, made me feel comfortable from the start and gently corrected me where necessary. Always appreciated that.
Another challenge was listening to spoken English, especially from movies or TV with “regular speak” in them -- i.e., regional accents, mumbling, quick speed, etc. To this day, I still turn on the “Closed Captioning” option in TV shows or movies that I want to completely capture!
Here are some tips for learners of English:
1) Read, read, read, read some more. Your brain will capture expressions and memorize them without you noticing it.
2) Use online news magazines and newspapers as your primary reading sources, as their language by rule is very precise and straightforward.
3) Write, write, write some more. Your word processor will quickly capture the mistakes and help you along.
4) Get a hold of an English dictionary. Open a page at random and read what the words in it mean. Capture words that you cannot decipher in your reading and look them up in that dictionary.
5) Listen to English-language songs and try to capture the lyrics. Start with some classics -- Frank Sinatra or Bing Crosby, for instance, two folks who clearly (and exquisitely) enunciated the lyrics they sang, are two great fountains of language.
6) Speak, speak, speak some more. Don’t worry about how it comes out at first. It’ll get better with time and practice.
7) Listen, listen, listen. Sports broadcasts and news shows, be it on radio or TV. The guys who do this “paint pictures with words,” so, besides enunciating well, they usually make good use of the language.
MH: What were some of the cultural differences you noticed?
Gus: One of the first things was realizing how preeminent “American football” was… both at a college and professional level. It was a little hard getting into all of it, but I feel I understand it better now (after about 20 years of ignoring it!).
Another thing that jarred me a bit at the beginning of my journey here was how insular this culture can get. Everything else in the world doesn't seem to matter here unless it affects the US in one way or another -- otherwise, it is ignored or only looked at as a curiosity. I believe this attitude of being sheltered from the rest of the world has lent itself to misunderstandings and misconceptions throughout history.
MH: Where did you live, and do you think that living with an American family would have helped you? (learn English, acted as a guide, support system, transportation, furnished housing, etc.)
Gus: I lived in Waco for about a year while completing a Masters degree, but before that I was briefly hosted by an American couple in Dallas. That short experience was very helpful, as they gave me useful information. After arriving in Waco, I was also briefly hosted by a professor at Baylor University while I found an apartment. In retrospect, I wish I had stayed longer with an American family before finding lodging on my own, as they would have continued to provide good insights into living in the US.
MH: What advice would you give to International Students coming to the U.S.?
Gus: Two things: Never lose sight of where you came from; and absorb as much as you can from this great culture. Over time, you should arrive at the same conclusion I did: People are the same, wherever you go. What changes are the ways of doing things. Everything else is similar.
Also, Americans are usually wonderful people when it comes to interacting with visiting foreigners, and especially in an academic environment. They are open, cheerful and friendly; they want to help, to inform, to advise you; they also want to learn more about where you come from. Ask them questions and give them information -- open their eyes as much as they are opening yours.
MH: What/Who helped you the most early on?
Gus: My elementary and high school offered a strong English language class. We used a British learning method called “Look, Listen and Learn!” that was very valuable. I made the most of it.
Also: Once I had access to it, I subscribed to TIME magazine and devoured every issue.
Finally, a satellite dish installed on top of my family’s apartment building in Caracas in 1987 was a huge help! It opened me the doors to a lot of American cable TV -- and major league baseball, which I already loved, but now watching them every night made me a lifelong Atlanta Braves fan!

Special thanks to Gustavo for doing this interview with us and for lending his experiential wisdom to international students in our community! Your story of cultural exchange is inspiring and a great example of how no matter what cultural differences may exist around us, we can achieve a great deal by taking the time to learn from each other and realize that at our core, we are the same.

As Gus explained, living with a host family can make your stay in the U.S. a lot smoother. Click here to learn more about how to get placed with an American host family!

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Sunday, December 15, 2013

Mark's Homestay On Ice: New International Students Have Some Fun On The Rink!

Mark's Homestay joined new international students on Friday for some fun on the ice at Atlantic Station's "Winter Wonderland" Ice Skating Rink! The students are studying the English language with ELS Atlanta (English Language Services) on the Southern Polytechnic University campus in Marietta. 



International students from Brazil on the ice skating rink at Atlantic Station in Atlanta, Georgia.

One homestay student from Brazil who is staying with a family in Marietta said she was really enjoying the trip to the rink. "There aren't many ice rinks back home at all. I don't get to ice skate a lot! This is really nice," she said. She really enjoys living with her homestay family and loves going hiking with her mom on Kennesaw Mountain, near where they live. "Me and my host mom go there a lot. I really love it."

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The ELS student group. They really enjoyed the cultural experience and each other's company!

The students came from countries like Brazil, Saudi Arabia, Taiwan, and Japan to experience American culture and improve their English language skills. Many of them are looking for American families to stay with in order to improve their English and experience American culture.

"All my room mates are from Saudi Arabia too, so we just speak Arabic only to each other all the time. I want to get into a homestay with an American family so I will practice English more," said one student.



Students from Saudi Arabia

The trip downtown was a first for many of the students. Mark's Homestay and ELS take students on excursions to let them experience the culture of the city and it also serves as a nice break from studying. The holidays are a perfect time for international students to experience some truely American traditions. 


ELS students on skates!

As we traversed Atlantic Station, we took in sights such as busy shoppers hurrying to get their Christmas shopping done, Santa Claus in a sled being pulled around by a train full of children, and an array of decorations and lights lining each street we passed. While Christmas is celebrated in many countries, here in America we are uniquely enthusiastic about the holiday, and it is a joy to rediscover this time of year with our students who are experiencing it here in the states for the first time. 

Here at Mark's Homestay, we hope that you will join us on our next cultural adventure; and that you will consider hosting an international student this holiday season!




Thursday, November 28, 2013

A Thanksgiving Day 'Thank You' to our Homestay Hosts!

A Thanksgiving Message from Mark's Homestay.

We are thankful for all the wonderful Mark's Homestay host families that continue to share their homes with students from all over the globe! You do more than open a door to your home--you open up your hearts and lives. While you and your students enjoy your holiday feast this year, take this opportunity to share stories about cultural traditions around the table.

ELS-Atlanta students enjoying a T-Day feast on the campus of SPSU in Marietta


Although Thanksgiving is uniquely North American, did you know that several countries have their own version of the holiday. For example...
  • Japan celebrates "Labor Thanksgiving Day" on November 23, a holiday that was adapted after World War II. The holiday's purpose is to commemorate labor and production, as well as to give thanks. 
  • Germany, "The Harvest Thanksgiving Festival" includes large harvest dinners and parades, much like its American counterpart
In an article by Audrie Palmer, foreign exchange student from Norway Sara Haaland expresses why she is so excited to experience Thanksgiving dinner with her host family.

"It's a big part of American tradition and culture." she said. "Getting to be here and seeing the traditions is a lot of the reason I wanted to experience what I saw in the movies," Haaland said. "Allowing me to get to experience it, means a lot to me. It does."

We thank you again for hosting!
Happy Thanksgiving!

Sincerely,
Mark's Homestay

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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

A Unique Culture Connection Between Countries & Generations: Homestay!

My name is Gillian and I'm 30 years old.  I host students frequently for Mark's Homestay LLC, a company that places international students with local American families for cultural exchange. A "homestay" is where an international visitor or student lives with a local family in order to learn English and experience American culture. 


Typically, most of the students looking for homestays are in their early 20s.  However, I recently hosted two students a bit different from the norm--a retired married-couple in their 50s from Columbia, Harold and Cece. Below is my true life story about how a much younger "host mother" made a cultural connection between a different culture and yes, a different generation through the homestay experience. The result---a new international friendship and a lifetime of memories. Let me tell you about my experience...



Closing the Gap Between Cultures & Generations
I was excited to meet Harold and Cece and hoped we would get along great. Of course, I was nervous they would not receive me well since I was a much younger "Host Mother." However, as soon as they arrived, it was like welcoming home a long lost aunt and uncle.  They were so polite and friendly as we shared stories about our families--I told them about my parents, aunts and uncles, and cousins, and they told me about their children and grandchildren.  They even have a daughter with a very similar name to mine who is the same age as me--I think this fact kind of instantly bonded us.  At first, their English was pretty limited--but they studied more than I’ve ever seen students study! By the end of their trip, we told stories back and forth with ease, and I was really proud of their progress.  Even though I was young enough to be their kid, I felt parental pride for their progress--after all, I’m still used to being kind of a “host mom.”  Everyday I supported and applauded their efforts and their consistent progress, and I was glad to help them along the way.


I have three especially fond memories with Harold and Cece.  The first is the day we took them to my family’s farm in Marietta.  Here, surrounded by flowers and apple trees, Harold told us that he felt transported back in time to his grandfather’s farm, and that it made him feel like a small boy again.  We could really feel that this brought back some beautiful memories for him, and we loved witnessing his child-like joy.  

The second best memory is of the last dinner we had with Harold and Cece.  A large party of friends and family went to a Mexican restaurant, and Roberto sat at one end of the large table with my father at the other end, and it was two hours filled with the sharing of stories and food.
The fondest memory I have is of when Harold and Cece said goodbye to me and my father, and they told us how much it meant to them that we opened our lives and homes.  We felt that hadn’t done anything extravagant, but as Harold brushed away tears from his eyes, we felt humbled that the homestay experience meant so much to them. Wonderful friendships really can form in even just a month. It couldn’t have been a better experience of cultural exchange, and was truly a homestay experience that was uniquely special.
I hope you will consider this unique experience by being a host family too. 

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

A Note from a Host Mom: Why Host?

My blog is about sharing the benefits of cultural exchange through the homestay experience. This morning, I received an email from one of my Atlanta homestay hosts explaining why she hosts. A former student who stayed with her several years ago wrote the following to her out of the blue:

Hi Mrs. Taylor, I really hope you are good. I don't know if you remember me, but I always remember you.(emphasis mine). I'm the venezuelan girl how stayed in your house in 2010. Now I'm 23 years old and I finished college this year.

Actually I would like to know how are you? How Michael and Xavier are? I would really like to see u again. Blessings for you and your beautiful guys.

Kisses and Hugs
Alejandra
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To be remembered is an amazing feeling! Over three years have past since she hosted this student, but her student emails her saying, "but I will always remember you." Being a homestay host is an amazing cultural experience where life-long bonds and friendships are formed. I know from experience. I keep in contact with my Nicaraguan host family and have nothing but fond memories of my homestay.

We need hosts like this for our international college students. Learn more about being a homestay host and have an experience like one of our host Moms! 

www.markshomestay.com/host



Sincerely,
Mark Leech
Owner, MarksHomestay.com


Thursday, September 19, 2013

My first burrito in the USA!

"Ahmed just had his first burrito ever!...and I think he liked it!"

I smiled as I heard this news from my homestay host about her international student's first experience with the great "American burrito!" Apparently, burritos are not as popular in Saudi Arabia! Seems silly--but this is what the homestay cultural experience is all about! Experiencing new things and another culture.

www.markshomestay.com/host

Are those over-sized mammoth tortillas from the likes of Moes or Chipotle another great "American invention"--I doubt it--especially since the burrito is Mexican in origin http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burrito! However, the experience for this Saudi student was indeed an American one! (Perhaps it's also a testament to the diversity of USA culture?)

Want to open doors to new experiences like this for international college students? Host an international college student.

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Saturday, August 10, 2013

What's a Homestay?

#1) What is a homestay?

When I tell most North Americans about my business Mark's Homestay (www.markshomestay.com) the first question I get is “What is a Homestay? The word homestay is unfamiliar to most Americans partly because homestays have traditionally occurred outside the U.S. (In fact, Microsoft Word refuses to acknowledge “homestay” as a correctly spelled word—hmm, darn spell-check “ignore all”). Depending on whom you ask, defining a homestay can be a difficult task.  So let me unravel the basic concept for you and discuss the benefits for its participants—the hosts and students. Maybe you will decide a homestay is for you!

At its core, a homestay is a cultural interchange between an individual or family (called a “host”) and an international student who is completely immersed in the language and culture of a local community through a shared living experience. The host provides the HOME and the student STAYS there for a monthly fee--a Homestay.  Homestay hosts offer more than a furnished room to rent—hosts share their lives by inviting their guest to participate in enriching family activities, local culture traditions, and language immersion. A homestay is the ideal, friendly environment for an international student to experience authentic local culture and develop language skills. A homestay experience offers numerous benefits for both hosts and students. Here are just a few…

Benefits for Host 

·       Engaging Social and Cultural Experience: How often does the world come to your living room? Learn more about other cultures and your own through daily conversation and cultural interchange.  
·       Monthly Income: We offer a generous “compensation rate” to help the host cover all the expenses incurred by hosting. Depending on your location to the student’s college and meal plan choice, hosts can earn anywhere from $550 to $830 dollars a month, even up to $1400 if you host two students. Rates increase for hosting more than one student.
·       Lifelong Friends: Our hosts and students often develop life-long friendships through the homestay experience. Many of our hosts travel to their student’s home country for a homestay!
·       Flexible Hosting Dates/No Contracts: Don’t worry about short or long-term leasing contracts as a homestay host. You choose the dates you are willing to host a student. We do the work of finding you a compatible student.
·       Safety: All international students and visitors must clear a security background check through their local U.S. Embassy (Department of State) in order to obtain a visa! 

Benefits for Student:
·       Improve your English:  How do you improve your English? —with study and practice!  A homestay opens doors to numerous opportunities for English conversation.   Research shows that homestay students often improve their language skills more rapidly than non-homestay students.
·       Cultural Immersion:  Although very friendly and welcoming, many Americans are sometimes are slow to welcome new people into their homes. Consequently, many international students never enter an American home during their studies. Living with a homestay host, you will gain immediate access to a welcoming American family and opportunities to participate in American customs such as holiday celebrations, dinner, family activities, and more.
·       Convenience: Finding an apartment in a large, unfamiliar city is a daunting, stressful experience for many international students. Many free “apartment finder” websites are wrought with scams and difficult to navigate. Mark’s Homestay will find you a home in Metro-Atlanta’s best neighborhoods and close to your school.
·       No Contracts or Leases: Typically, U.S. landlords require international students to sign a minimum 1 year lease and pay a higher deposit equal to 2-3 months advance rent since they have no credit history or Social Security Card (SSN card). This common practice makes it difficult for internationals to locate flexible and affordable short-term housing.  Mark’s Homestay only requires a small application fee and minimum 8-week stay, but you may stay longer if you wish. If your homestay isn’t working out, we will let you switch homestay host after two weeks at no cost.
·       Safety: Although we can’t guarantee your safety, Homestays are typically located in quality neighborhoods with low crime-rates. Moreover, we conduct a rigorous screening of each homestay host, which includes a detailed host application, host interview, home inspection, and national criminal background check. 

Is homestay for you? 
To Host: www.markshomestay.com/host
To Homestay as a Student or Visitor: www.markshomestay.com/apply